If you love someone with substance abuse, you may have been told to ‘detach with love,’ to use ‘tough love’ to help them, or that you are a ‘codependent’ who is enabling them. The end result of these messages is that you are probably confused about your role in helping. The one size solution does not fit all for recovery. With the right frame of mind you can help in your loved one’s recovery. You are your loved one's best hope for recovery..

“Addicts are all the same”. Not true. We are all different and unique. As individuals, as families, as people using substances, as people helping others.

Likewise, there are many paths towards change and each person and family is different. You are your loved one's best hope for recovery. We can help.